to the most dynamic, Amateur Sex community on
Yes my real name is Brandi and I sincerely
look forward to sharing my real life with you! I’m
a proud mom and wife, a fiscal conservative and a social
wild child! A real, live Kim Katrall….for the
fans of Sex in The City!
This site was not the idea of my husbands, or some
marketing ploy…..This is just me exploring my
sexuality, fantasies and fulfilling my exhibitionist
Inside you will see everything from naughty to nice
and at all times real. I REALLY love men and occasionally
a woman or two! My hubby and I have been swingers since
2000 and since the lifestyle has given so much to us...
this is sort of our way to give back!
Be aware however... this community is very, very explicit.
I don't believe in doing things half way, and I feel
no shame in sharing my sexual adventures with you! I
personally see no problem with nudity and sex, so why
not go all the way!
Why I Started This Site?
I decided to start this site for three reasons:
First, I have grown tired of all the “staged”
adult sites on the internet. Finding a real woman who
truly enjoys her sexuality is a rarity today. I would
say that 95% of the Amateur sites on the internet are
started for one simple reason...to make money! Don’t
get me wrong, I believe striving for financial success
is admirable, but that’s why we have two other
successful “mainstream” businesses. I hope
having a brain doesn’t turn you off!
I just don't think money should be the driving force
behind a personal website. I believe you should actually
want to do this without thought of profit or gain. I
can pick out an “exotic dancer” who is just
there to drain my wallet a mile away. I’ll bet
the one ugly one, who truly enjoys herself makes just
as much money and I am the first to give it to her.
I do this for my love of exhibitionism, of alternative
lifestyles (swinging and Amateur Sex), and because I really
want to do it. The 95% that are in it for money, lack
the truth, feeling and personality that should be there.
Second: My goal is to put broaden peoples minds while
simulating their senses! Not only will you find countless
hours of my categorized pictures and video but you will
also find a depth of swinger and Amateur Sex content found
nowhere else on the web. Weather you are interested
in the research regarding swingers, have questions about
this lifestyle or are struggling to balance your religious
upbringing with your sexual desires, you will find the
information here at brandilove.info. A huge part of the
success of this site is due to the community here! I
believe I have the most amazing membership base on the
planet! So why not get to know each other! Every member
(or couple) has a unique profile, the ability to upload
their own content and communicate with each other!
Third: I love my sexuality! One of the true passions
in my life is SEX! I crave it. The erotic sounds, the
sensual smells, the pleasurable touch….. Sex for
me is a wonderful journey through emotional and sensory
overload. I view my sexuality as a gift. A gift is meant
to be enjoyed, cherished and shared with friends! I
mean seriously, in today’s hectic world, we could
all use some more of this.
I enjoy exhibitionism and voyeurism. Believe it or not,
with as busy as I am, I still find time to do something
that really gets me off….I dance at clubs across
the country! Not for the money, not for the attention,
simply for fun!
I like watching, and being watched. I rarely wear panties
when we go out (you're be able to check!), and I like
to fool around in public. I love to "accidentally"
flash people and see their reaction.
Comfort with my sexuality coupled with a husband secure
in who he is has allowed us to explore “the lifestyle”
My husband and I have been involved in “swinging”
for about six years now and have enjoyed every minute
of it. This choice has not come without criticism. You
would not believe how some people react. These reactions
which have sometimes bordered on aggressive are also
a driving force for my site.
Can I vent?…….Americans generally have an
amazing concept of morality. Parents allow their children
to watch the most vile and disgusting violence, yet
thongs are banned at almost every beach. The top video
games played by children under 16 are Metal Slug, Shadow
Ops, and Manhunter, games where the goal is to mutilate,
yet I get the most judgmental looks you have ever seen
when I wear a short skirt to a club. Are they serious?
Something has gone haywire. My husband and I come from
conservative families with a combined number of divorces
at 9! While I love them dearly, they continue on in
marital strife and dishonest games. For them sex for
pleasure is wrong but sex for power is right…huh?
Did I miss a memo?
I however enjoy marital bliss, no game playing, a healthy
well adjusted daughter and financial security….hmmm…..if
they were only willing to be honest.
I believe in openness, honesty and respect in a relationship
and never approve of someone cheating on their partner.
That’s what you will get here, honesty, openness
and a healthy dose of what I consider sexy!
This stuff is slightly embarrassing for me but since
many people ask…here it goes!
I am 5’7” with expertly colored blonde hair
LOL! My natural eyes are brown however I have a full
spectrum of colored contacts…..depending on my
mood! You’ll have to let me which ones you like!
My measurements are 36-25-36 and I stay in the gym religiously….I
can squat about 125lbs! Strong legs come in handy when
holding someone’s head in place wink wink!
I have been happily married for 11 years, have a six
year old daughter and serve as CFO of our adult company
as well as an executive of our mainstream business interests.
I have lived in Florida, Colorado, Michigan and now
live in the great state on North Carolina!
My Daily Life:
I am just like every other working wife, mother and
homemaker….well maybe I’m a little different!
I stayed at home with our daughter until she started
school (which was endlessly rewarding) and now spend
my days working on our businesses and having naughty
fun! In the evenings however it’s back to suburbia
where we spend time as a family until the little one
Monday through Friday it’s off to school in the
morning, into the office and then off to the gym. I
usually get home around 7:00pm. I spend the evening
with the family doing the typical family things and
then……the evenings are my playground! I
work on this site (join me on the cam sometime!), enjoy
a nice bottle of wine, watch my favorite shows…I’m
a sucker for reality TV and hopefully pass out from
an intense orgasm!
Saturday’s are for fun and nothing but fun! Sometimes
I will go into “The Club”. Other nights
we might go out for dinner and dancing (want to see
what I wear out?) and when we are feeling freaky, we
will get together with some of our less conservative
Sundays are always family days!
In My Spare Time!
Spare time…hmmm…..believe me if there was
no room for spare time….I’d give something
else up! Everyone needs some time to themselves and
I am no different so here are some of the things I enjoy!
* I love to travel. The more adventurous the better!
* Cars: I love speed and my supercharged Mustang is
almost fast enough to ...keep
up with me!
* Motorcycles – I just love that power between
* Shooting – If you’re into gun control…that’s
cool with me, I just get such a rush ...hitting
the bulls’ eye at 50ft with my 9mm!
* Fine Art Photography - I love the art of Andrew
Blake, Doug Lester, Michael Vhale, and Lindsay Garrett.
You will see this influence in some of my galleries!
Sporting Activities – I love to be active, it
keeps me young….Life’s Short, Play Hard!
Here is what you might…..um will see me doing!
* Tennis – a firm grip and all those balls….my
kind of fun!
* Exercising – Sweating can be fun!
* Rollerblading – Don’t forget the knee
* Golfing – Four! Sounds like a good number
* Soccer – Now that’s using your head!
* Ice Skating – Still trying for that triple
* Swimming – I have a killer breast stroke!
* Horseback Riding – No matter how you cut it
a woman on a horse is just plain ...sexy!
My sexual preferences run from mild to wild. Sometimes
I like to make love…. slowly and passionately
for hours, savoring every sensation. Other times I actually
prefer wild unbridled sex. I love to dress up in my
naughtiest “slut wear”, leave my stripper
shoes on and let lust take over.
I am extremely oral, both giving and receiving. And
I always swallow! Funny though….many men say they
wan to see it…how about you? Call me old fashioned
but I love it missionary…..something about a strong
man on top drives me wild! A close second would be doggy
style and when I’m on top…I can squirt!
Freaked me out when I first discovered it but ahhhhh
it feels so good!
I have a few fetishes…..Leather, lingerie, and
glass toys! But if there is one thing that puts me over
the top every time it’s fingers!!!!! I can just
about make myself cum thinking about a warm wet tongue,
gliding over my clit while fingers slowly slide inside
me, massaging that special little button….You
really wont believe how wet I can get. Ahhhh….I
may need to take a break from this and take care of
something! Guys forget about “Size” for
me it means nothing! My favorite “boy toy”
is smaller than average but what he does with his mouth
and fingers…..MAGIC! I have some audio streams
of these encounters! (I email them to my husband from
time to time!)
Group sex! Keep in mind that the sole intention of
this site is not “hardcore” but I do want
to be honest about my preferences! So you will definitely
see this type of content!
I will and have always preferred men! One at a time
is great, two can be better and three….WOW! From
time to time I will also bring a girl or two home from
the club, my husband is always appreciative and we/they
always go to bed satisfied! My favorite situation has
always been another couple though! It satisfies my voyeuristic
and exhibitionistic desires simultaneously!
What makes me different from any other “MILF”
you might meet?
Simply put…balls! LOL!
I have never thought of myself as the hottest, I don’t
walk around thinking I’m better than anyone else.
What I am is confident. Confident a willing to do what
most only think of. I want to experience life to its
fullest. I have talked to many women at the club I dance
at who say “I would love to do this….but”
It’s always the but…no pun intended! Come
on ladies…step out and really live! What makes
me different is that although mostly conservative…I
* Do Bachelor Parties!
* Dance For The Thrill And Fun Of It!
* Swing From Time To Time!
* Dress Sexy Because I like It!
* Love Sex For Sex’s Sake!
* Love Men!
* Will “Play” With The Right Woman!
* Created My Own Website!
If you are looking for a “Lady in the street
and a freak in the bed”….You have found
My Favorite Movie Quote:
One of my favorite scenes ever comes from the movie
“Tombstone” with Kurt Russell (Wyatt Erp)
and Dana Delaney (Josephine). I can identify with it
because it illustrates how I am different. A wife, a
mother, a conservative, yet “different”.
Wyatt comes across Josephine riding her horse. After
some great flirtation, they end up sitting among the
trees, having a picnic of sorts. Josephine at some point
Josephine: Oh, I know, don't say it, I'm rotten. I
tried to be good, it's just so boring.
Wyatt: The way you talk.
Josephine: Never heard a woman talk like that?
Josephine: I don't have time to be proper. I wanna live.
I'm a woman, I like men. If that means I'm not lady-like,
then I guess I'm just not a lady. At least I'm honest.
Wyatt: You're different, no arguing that. But you're
a lady alright. I'll take my oath on it.
Well..that’s it! So come on in! I promise....It
will be one hell of a ride!